NirvanaFunClub

I’ve heard the other day on the wast lands of the internets that men do not like funny women. They are ok with it, but appreciate it much more if a woman laughs at their jokes than the other way around. I know, an information old as time. You can even call it chauvinistic in a way it perpetuates the old male/female patterns, when we all had more money and nuclear families, in this proclaimed capitalistic society, actually could survive on only one income. When women could work at home, in a literal sense of the word.

Side note: Nuclear families are also a modern construct, broadly promoted mid 20 century in the western societies.

I can’t help but think that every ‘freedom’ we won was providing just another means for the system to exploit us. I am not arguing slavery was good. I am not arguing patriarchy IS good, I just think those terms are more honest. Today someone can enforce a ‘Nazi’ way of doing things, but we cannot call it out, because some words are forbidden to be mentioned out loud. Talking about historicism, or simply watching the rewinding of a VCR tape.

I believe that men prefer when someone laughs at their jokes. I also enjoy when someone thinks I am funny. I think that a part of the reason why I am choosing to spend time with gloomy, moody, prone to addiction men, is that warm feeling when they smile. When I make them smile. When I see their little lips curling up, and their not anymore rosy checks starting to blush, I feel joy. The less they are prone to smiling the more I make it my quest to make them laugh. So, I get it, and I finally understand.

It is not my personality I am just a funny woman and every rejection is a compliment.

If you’ll excuse me, I have decided to Lay on Laurels for the rest of the day.